Advice for dating sites
He stumbled across The Art of Charm podcast and eventually signed up for an Ao C bootcamp.
Excited by the progress he’s made in his own life since the program, he decided to start writing for Ao C to help other guys do the same.
These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result women find them boring.
So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like the others. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.
A good time to ask a girl you met online for her number (or a date) is on the 3rd or 4th message.
Having a brief back-and-forth allows you to build attraction and familiarity and increases the odds she’ll say yes.
It also shows that you require women to put in a bit of effort before you invite them out (showing that you’re a high-value, selective guy).
Instead frame it positively, saying something like “I’m looking for a girl with integrity who keeps her word”).
By understanding a woman’s perspective and experience, you’ll have a better idea of what women are looking for.